(Closed) Grief related vent, totally NWR

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am so sorry. That is so hard and sad and horrible. I am glad that you feel that you can tell all of us, because we are here for you and we do care.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Firstly, I am very sorry about the loss of Will.

I don’t know if you can access this through insurance, but it might be helpful to talk to a counsellor, my mom is a counsellor and does a lot of grief counselling (mostly she just listens, hands tissues, makes suggestions etc when pertinent). Also the Boston police department might have a victims assistance program they can get you in touch with, which is to help people impacted by violence (you don’t have to have been the physical victim to qualify usually), I know many of the victims assistance programs here offer telephone consultation.

Post # 5
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2858 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

Words can’t even express how sorry I am for you and your family. That’s just heartbreaking.

I know you’re not looking for advice, but I’d recommend that you see a therapist. At the very least, it will be an objective person to listen to, and just getting things out is SO cathartic. And maybe they can help you.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am so sorry to read about your heartbreak 🙁

I do not have a lot of advice to give on a subject like this, but you are right, you should see a grief counselor to talk about your feelings. Hiding powerful emotions like these away can affect many aspects of your life — it can drive wedges between you and your spouse, friends, and family. If it leads to depression it can make every part of your life difficult and sad. I experienced similar grief as a child and refused to address it with anyone. As a consequence, I suffered from depression for at least 5 years. It really affects the person you are, and it will never go away until you can learn to come to terms with your grief and find a way to be okay again.

I wish you luck in finding peace.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee

I am SO sorry… I don’t know what else to say. 🙁

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. I actually remember this news story. I can’t even imagine the pain you and your family are going through. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Post # 9
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392 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m so sorry for you and your loved ones.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you, and your family as well. I hope that in someway, somewere, somehow you find some resolution and peace that you deserve.  It’ll be a long road, but you’ll get there.  ((hugs))

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

This seriously made me cry. I can’t even imagine having to deal with something like that… I’m sorry girl 🙁

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

wow. i don’t know what to say. not sure if it’ll help but (((HUGS))) to you. like you (and others) have said you really should see a grief counselor. If there’s one thing I’ve learned in 30 years, until you mourn and let your grief out of your body/mind it will eat you up inside.

I truly wish you all the love in the world and my deepest sympathies.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

I am so, so sorry. I can’t even imagine how badly that must hurt.

Post # 14
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713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

oh wow, i remember reading about your brother in the news and tearing up at work. I could not even imagine. My heart breaks for your family and for your brother’s gf. 

Definitely go and talk to someone, maybe it would help to go with your Darling Husband as well.

 

::::HUUUUUGS::::

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

…I have no words. I wish I could give you a hug. Cry

Post # 16
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792 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I am so sorry… I know there is nothing that anyone can say or do to make the pain stop. You and your family are in my thoughts. ((hugs))

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