(Closed) Groom is super busy BUT wants to be included

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

Would he be ok with you going alone (or with family or friends) to some places, just to rule them out? That way you can narrow down what you do and don’t like, and he won’t have to be there for all the ones you wouldn’t have liked anyway.

Post # 4
405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Mackinaw Valley Vineyard; Bloomington Center for the Performing Arts

Can you narrow down what he wants to have an ultimate say in?  I would assume he’d want to look at venues, maybe photographers, caterer, etc., but there might be other things he’s willing to leave up to you.  

As for the venue search right now, I like what artbee suggested.  You probably know what types of places you’re looking for and can really involve him in the final important part of the selection.

Also, I understand not wanting to bombard him with wedding talk when he first gets home, but it’s obviously bothering you not to.  I would probably tell him that you’ve got wedding stuff to discuss today (this weekend, in the next three days, whatever) and to let you know when he wants to discuss it.  That way you don’t come off as nagging, but he knows your timeline.

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