(Closed) Groom is wishy washy on budget, but ridged on details

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Guys do really well with hard facts on paper. Get some quotes from venues and give it to him! That worked for mine! Also, have him write down the 5 most important things to him for the wedding and you do the same. Compare notes and see what you have in common and what you need to compromise on. My Fiance doesn’t give a lick about flowers, decor, and my DOC but we are making joint decisions on food, drink, cake (he reaalllly wants a traditional cake) and music! Maybe give him a few main things he can take charge of that he’s interested in? You’re opinion is important as well!

 

Just FYI, not all venues are more expensive that allow outside catering. I find the opposite is true! The places that require to use their food/catering seem to be crazy priced in my area and the food is sub-par (since you have to use them to book the venue, it seems like they dont need to work as hard for your food) Not to sway you or anything, but thats what Ive found! We’re having one of our favorite restaurants cater for waaaayyy cheaper than the catering quotes I’ve been getting!

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