(Closed) Groom Just Saw My Dress….!!!! HELP

posted 8 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Would would you do if your FI saw a picture of you in your wedding dress?
    Keep : (146 votes)
    95 %
    Cancel : (8 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5498 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Keep it. come July he won’t remember what it looked like in the picture anyway! All he probably saw was a white dress. Come the wedding he will be totally stunned…

    Post # 4
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    2397 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I think you should just keep it.  I totally get why you’re concerned, but your Fiance is probably not going to remember what it looked like come July.  My Fiance will ask if I’m wearing a new outfit… when I’ve worn it at least twice around him!  I really doubt he’s going to remember. 

    Also, you are going to look so different when your hair and makeup are done, when your dress is fitted and when you’re walking down the aisle towards him. 

    Post # 5
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    505 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    keep it.  I am assuming that it was either a cellphone photo or one that was downloaded on to your computer.  Chances of what you look like in the picture compared to what you will look like on your wedding day are completely different.  Does that make sense?  I am not sure if I am explaining as clear as I am thinking it LOL

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    235 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    If it’s a matter of wanting to surprise your man, and not for traditions’ sake, then you should definitely keep it. Yes, he saw the dress (and he probably won’t even remember it!) but think about how much other things go into your special reveal, besides the dress; your hair, make-up, veil, etc. Just seeing a picture of you in the dress will be a million times different then seeing you walking down the aisle on your special day. Keep the dress. And maybe you’d like to lead him on into thinking that you did change it, and once again he will have no idea what to expect!

    Post # 7
    Member
    1585 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    He saw a pic… but men do not remember things.

    Besides you were not completely done up or anything…  The effect it totally different the day of.

    Post # 8
    Member
    554 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    I completely agree.  Keep the dress… you probably won’t find another one you are as in love with as this one anyways!

    Post # 9
    Member
    127 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Did he just glimpse the picture or study it? If he’s anything like my man, he won’t even remember that it was a white dress by the time the wedding comes around. 🙂 Keep it!

    Post # 11
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    2249 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2018

    i don’t think my fi would be able to tell the difference honestly between those. just keep yours, the effect will be amazing!

    Post # 12
    Member
    732 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2010 - The Tower Club

    Hmm… Like most guys, I think your fiance will be seeing YOU, not the dress, when you get married… I think this is how guys think.

    Also, the dress you might replace it with isn’t different enough from the first dress to justify it (if you’re only replacing it for your fiance’s sake).

    I think you will look beautiful and happy and your fiance probably just saw “white dress” and that was it.

    Post # 13
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    1230 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Keep it! Like others have said, he won’t remember what it looks like and even if he does, it won’t be the same when your hair and make-up are done. It’s a beautiful dress, btw.

    Post # 14
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    389 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    Keep it – there’s no way he’s going to remember!! Plus, even if he did, what you look like in that pic will be NOTHING compared to how you’ll look like that day, walking towards him. I wouldn’t worry about it.

    Post # 15
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    21 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Keep it for all of the reasons already mentioned. It’s a beautiful dress, so don’t worry about it for even one second more! 🙂

    Post # 16
    Member
    281 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Keep your original dress…they are so similar that he’d never know the difference anyways.  Like the other Bees have said…you’ll look totally different on your wedding day.  My FH saw a pic of me in my dress very briefly…and I was like “AAAHhhHHHHhhhh” and he looked away and said…”All I saw was a white dress” LOL  I think you’re safe!

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