Post # 17
keep it – guys barely notice things like that. unless you have a groom like the one that was on SYTTD that was talking about how he doesnt “like rouching” or “thinks that color washes her out” – i doubt he could even tell you what it looks like now.
seriously – if you love the dress keep it.
now if my FH had actually saw ME IN the dress – like in person… i might wanna switch. but its a pic. youre safe!
Post # 18
keep it! a pic of you in it and you actually in it is different! my Fiance saw a pic of me in mine too and he said, its not the same…..yuo walking down the aisle is something totally different and honestly, they aren’t going to remember anyway! : )
Post # 19
Definitely keep it. Like others already said, I doubt he’d remember the details of the dress from seeing one picture. If you love the dress, keep it!
Post # 20
I say keep it. I bet if you asked him to describe what the dress looks like he would give an incredibly vague description, because he is male, and no offence to males but they do tend to have a nack for not noticing details.
Remember on your wedding day it will be the whole package- not just the dress but the hair, makeup, shoes, accessories, etc. so even if he does remember the dress it will look completely different.
Post # 21
I agree with everyone else, keep it . . . Men aren’t very good at remembering details, and seeing a picture is very differen than seeing it on a person. Plus, it’s more about the moment than the actual dress.
Post # 22
Keep it!!!! He will not remember the picture and when he sees you, he will just be caught in the moment and how beautiful you look!
Post # 23
Keep it! He will not remember your dress the way you think he will. While we commit each and every detail of our dress to memories, that is because we have researched it/tried it on/looked it up online/seen other people post it a billion times. Also, the dresses you posted are of very similar sillhouette, there is no way he will know whether the one he saw was the original or the other.
Post # 24
you could go try on like 10 dresses and take a picture of each of them and then tell him that the dress he saw was a potential one and now you want to show him more potential ones. After seeing 11 dresses, he probably won’t know which was which. Therefor the element of suprise is still there.
This sounds silly but I would do it, if I wanted him to be suprised.
Post # 25
- Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch
Keep it. He totally won’t remember, and if he does, it’s going to look totally different on your wedding day.
Post # 26
i would say keep it since usually guys dont pay attention to the details of the dress such as lace and crystals if you have them on your dress. I also would go and try on some more dresses and kinda show him them also that way hes kinda confused on the dress. In korean tradition the fiance sees the dress so my fiance has seen the dress in pics but is clueless as to the little details of the dress. 🙂
Post # 27
Keep it. Men are kinda Homer Simpson about stuff like that… he’ll probably only remember the vague details about it like “Oh yeah, its strapless with some kinda long thing attached to the back, and … uh… its white?”
However, now that he knows don’t discuss or leave your dress hanging in front of him. Keep it as guarded as it was before. With the makeup and shoes and veil and just the sheer joy of getting married the dress will look pretty different and uniquely YOU on the final day, and he will still be surprised!
Post # 28
Keep it! He is a guy! he will totally forget what it looks like! and you will have fab shoes and make up and hair done also which completes the entire look! I wouldnt worry about it.
Post # 29
Keep it. If your Fiance is anything like mines he will forget about it in a week. They don’t look at details like we do.
Post # 30
Keep it, I doubt he will remember, and even if he does, the excitement and surprise will still be there when he first sees you once you’re all ready.
Post # 31
KEEP! He’s a man, he won’t remember!!