Post # 1
My groom admitted to me the other day that he didn’t want a wedding, that he only went along with it because he thought its what I wanted. Too late now to go back, we are 2 months away from the big day. Any ideas as to how I can get him more excited about the wedding day?
Post # 3
Is there something you can incorporate that will make him more excited?
Mine isn’t into the whole wedding thing either…as I’ve explained many times on here he just doesn’t really see the point. He would just as soon be common law but it’s important to me.
That’s part of why we’re doing the destination wedding…so it becomes more like a fun vacation where we just happen to get married lol. I’m trying to get his input into things too…like choosing songs he likes to dance to, his friend is playing our ceremony music, he picks his own outfit etc.
Post # 4
Can you give him a project to do that he would enjoy?
While my Fiance is excited for our wedding, he could have done without it. He didn’t need the big affair but went along with it because it was important to me. To get him involved he and his dad are going to build the photobooth. This will be the one thing that is entirely him and he’s really into it. They should be starting tomorrow!
Post # 5
I have made a lot of effort to include his ideas/opinions in the planning. Going so far as allowing him to have his PS3 set up at the reception for Rockband! We are having a VERY unique non-traditional wedding, but there are some wedding staples I would like to do that he is really against.