(Closed) Groom’s Female Friend Unfriended me on Facebook – Does She Still Get an Invite?

posted 11 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
5165 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

She is your fiances friends so he should make the call if he wants her there or not

Post # 4
3292 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

She sounds pretty immature, at best, but I’d just be the bigger person and invite her. She’s an old friend of your fiance’s, and maybe someday she’ll grow up and realize how kind you were to her, in spite of her drama. Just invite her as planned and do your best to ignore her crazy behavior.

Post # 5
726 posts
Busy bee

It’s up to him. She doesn’t sound like a very good friend if she invited his ex whom she knew he was having major problems with. If he decides to invite her then its up to her whether or not she comes and she can’t blame you for not being invited.

I wouldn’t personally want her there, but its his friend and ultimately his decision.

She sounds like a butt.

Post # 6
1019 posts
Bumble bee

FB is your reason for wanting to uninvited her? When did fb become the last word?? What about all the other nasty stuff she’s done?

Post # 7
717 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

It’s up to your Fiance.

Post # 8
598 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I wouldn’t invite her, but I’m not all about etiquette or whatever. She’s ridiculous.  Who cares about FB – she has done too many things to disrespect you and your fiance’s relationship.  I wouldn’t just leave it up to him…I’d take a stand. 

Post # 10
105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@kristenannie: Does your Fiance envision ever continuing to have a friendship with this girl, or her boyfriend? I think thats the real issue her. If the friendship is hanging by it’s last threads, then not inviting them to your wedding will probably be the proverbial straw. But, if he thinks he wants to try and mend fences and keep in touch, then I think you need to at least extend the invitation. Guys are funny about friendships – it seems to take a lot to get them to want to cut someone out of their life.

She sounds awful, though, and I can certainly understand not wanting her to attend!

Post # 11
4460 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Since it’s your FI’s friend, he makes the call. Talk to him about how you feel about her and then go from there.

Post # 12
2836 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I wouldn’t want to invite her because of what she has done. She doesn’t seem like a real friend to me, and I wouldn’t invite her for that reason alone. 

Post # 15
480 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I would say do not invite her. You don’t need someone like that on the biggest day of your life. Tell your Fiance how you feel and I’m sure he will follow suit as long as it doesn’t matter that much to him. What a jerk of a friend!

Post # 16
1722 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I hate when people say “it’s just Facebook” regarding mean comments or defriending. Due to the crappy stuff she’s done in the past, the defriending was the icing on the cake. If you don’t feel comfortable with her, tell your Fiance and he should understand where you are coming from. 

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