(Closed) Groom's parents hosting – can I include my parents names on invite?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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3769 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I would leave them in, just because I like having both sets of parents on the invite.

Post # 4
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4442 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

I would ask your FI’s parents if they’re ok with it, but I also would think it’s fine so long as they aren’t offended because I like having both names on the invite 😉

Post # 5
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1732 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

are you including his parents names on the invites for the wedding that your parents are hosting? If so, I think you can include your parents name on this one. Just make it equal

Post # 6
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6124 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

you can have both, it’s not just who is paying techincally.  In fact if you have to make two sets for two parties, I’d just make it equal for both invitations.

Mr. and Mrs. John L. X &
Mr. and Mrs. Mark T
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their children
Heather Marie
to
Michael Francis
Saturday, the seventeenth of May
two thousand and eight
at half past four in the afternoon

 

Post # 7
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1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@pbhatta4670:  

I would actually do it more like this:

Mr and Mrs FIL

request the honor of your presence and the marriage of their son,

FI

to

pbhatta4670,

daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Pbhatta’s parents.

 

I don’t think there’s anything incorrect in including your parent’s names, and it’s clear from the invitation that your FILs are the hosts. Keeping the family groupings together, with their son’s name following theirs feels right to me. It just seems weird when yours comes first.

Post # 10
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1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’d double check with your FI’s parents about it, but that does sound fine, and indicate that his parents paid for the wedding, but you are still honoring yours.

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