(Closed) Grooms sister/bridesmaid out of state

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Maybe have your Fiance talk to his sister or what about your FMIL?

Post # 4
159 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’d probably try to contact her again. Send an email to both bridesmaids about bridesmaidy-type things and see if she responds to that?

If not, maybe having your Fiance give her a ring would be useful.

Post # 5
7685 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s common for out of state BMs to not be expected to attend pre-wedding parties. It sounds to me like Future Sister-In-Law doesn’t want to attend (after all it would be very costly for her) and is avoiding calls. In my opinion, you shouldn’t be expecting her to attend. And anyway, it sounds like it’s mostly taken care of.

If it was me, I would make contact with her, and leave a message saying that I’d like to talk, assure that I’m not expecting her to fly in for the bridal shower but just want to re-establish contact.

Post # 7
998 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@jeasterw:  I personally wouldn’t ask her to contribute. She isn’t expected to, but if she offers then great. 

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