- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
Hey bees! Fiance and I are having an issue with one of our groomsmen. This has been going on for a while now but with less then 3 months to the wedding I really feel like something needs to be done. My Fiance doesn’t have a lot of close friends but we met our one Groomsman through our best man, they work together! And when we go out or have get togethers this Groomsman is always invited and always shows up. For a couple months now though things have been weird with him, like he is really depressed and he gets violent when he drinks. I’m not really sure what started all the hatred he is having but it has gotten to the point where me and my Fiance don’t even want to be around him. It used to be only when he drank but now it’s all the time. We have tried talking to him and asking what is wrong but he never talks to us when he is in these moods. He will start fights and act crazy when we are our at the bar and then just text and say sorry the next day saying things will change. He also writes really hateful things on his Facebook about women and he is just really mean all of a sudden. I’m scared to be around him especially when he drinks and don’t trust him to have mine or our friends backs
I don’t wayou you guys tostink I am cold hearted but I really don’t feel sorry for him anymore, we have offered help and there is only so many timeS you can say sorry for doing the same thing. Fiance and I are wanting to tell him he is out of the wedding. I’m nervous of how he will act around our family and friends and he has even made comments about how he can’t wait for the bachelor party so he can cause trouble and it scares me to death fi will be involved and get hurt or it will ruin his time for his party. What do you guys think?