- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
Ok bees. My fiance and I have been trying to figure this one out. Our best friends are lesbians. Naturally we want them in our wedding. One is standing on my side and the other on his side. Obviously they will walk together down the aisle. We have decided the one on his side will wear the same bridesmaids dress, except in black so she matches the groomsmen. We are cool with this idea as are they and frankly we do not care what anyone thinks about the matter. We do not think anyone will complain about it as we are going about it in a proper manner. However, what do we call the lady friend on his side? Is she considered a groomswoman? groomsmaid? grooms lady? I have NOOOOO clue. The only thing I do not like is groom’s attendant or honor attendant. I don’t want her to feel like she is not important. As I said they are our best friends and we could not imagine not having each of them beside us on our special day. I would appreciate your input on this matter. I am making gifts for them and want to include their title for the day on there. Please help as I am stumped!