- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
Wondering if anyone has input on this: I have 9 bridesmaids (3 sisters, 5 close friends, and my sister-in-law). My fiance has 7 groomsmen. He initially had 8, but 1 can no longer be there. I am worried about having an “uneven” wedding party, even though I know it is kind of silly to worry (it didn’t help that two of the bridesmaids seemed to think that it was weird to have the party be uneven).
I have been hoping that my fiance would ask his cousin to be in the wedding party, but they aren’t super close and so he has been hesitant to ask him. It would be more appropriate given their relationship for my fiance to ask his cousin to be an usher, but could he then escort one of the girls down the aisle? I guess I’m a little unclear on what the role of ushers is. Also, are the ushers usually included in the wedding party pictures?