(Closed) Grr to MIL :(

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2640 posts
Sugar bee

 Why does your Future Mother-In-Law think your DH won’t be there for her?   Without that story, I’m guessing you feel like this is some guilt trip she’s using on him.  Sounds like it could be.  I mean she’d rather commit suicide than bother him??? Come on.  And if she really didn’t want to bother him, why did she end up telling him after the fact?  (Sometimes these thing come out.  But it sounds like she wanted him to know how “well” she’s keeping him out of the loop.

Maybe there’s a way to just offer to be there in the capacity that you both can do.  And try to deflect her negativity until (hopefully) she comes around. 

Post # 4
1315 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Yeah I just think she intends to guilt him into grovelling to be let back into her good books. Nice to know there’s no age limit on immaturity…!

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