(Closed) Grr– Vent!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I would ask them if they could help out. How will they what you need help with until you ask them, you know? I hope you get al the help you need!

Post # 4
1315 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You’re gonna have to open your gob and ask. Sure they’re thoughtless/preoccupied/busy/whatever. You’ve too little time – just make a list of what needs doing, start making phone calls and crossing stuff off!

Post # 5
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Maybe I do not understand the whole situation.  Could it be that they are waiting for some direction from you?  They might be willing to help, but are not sure what needs to be done and don’t want to assault you with questions.  They might figure you will let them know what you need/want, when you need/want to spend time together, etc.  I don’t know about your bridesmaids, but most of my friends would wait to be told/asked what to do.  I wouldn’t get too down on them unless you have asked for help and they said no.

Ask for what you need, they might surprise you.  Good luck!

Post # 6
1545 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Have you asked anyone to help? if any of the brides had asked me to help i was right there but of course i always extended the offer. My SIL hasnt really asked for any of our help i tried to offer but after her telling me no its ok then i just stopped.

Maybe they dont wanna ask because of they cant afford to help?

i would def maybe talk to all of them and ask if they could help. maybe even tell them hey i just need an extra hand etc.


( i myself thought the same thing. i thought everyone would go with me to try on dresses and help me look at venues and help me pick out stuff to this day only ONE Bridesmaid or Best Man has helped. i want to so bad make her my Maid/Matron of Honor but i wanna wait to the day gets closer.)

sorry you feel this way **hugs**

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