(Closed) GRRRR Vent about SO

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Post # 17
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

bad day or not, joking or not, my husband would not speak to me like that.

Post # 19
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Amerie27:  Ah then you’d think he’d be happy! 3 weeks paid vacation sounds good (bad injury aside, of course… hope it is nothing too serious). 

I hate when people say something and are obviously NOT joking but then say, “I was just kidding!” and proceed to treat you as if YOU were the one out of line for overreacting or something. GRRR! 

I hope he snaps out of it and brings you home some nice flowers tonight or something. ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 20
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would have slapped that MF! hahaha jk jk.  Hopefully he was just having a bad morning, however that’s never an excuse to speak to you that way ๐Ÿ™ Maybe just give him space today (don’t call/text) and see how he is when you get home.  Or maybe it’s that concussion getting to him… :/

Post # 22
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Amerie27:  Ugh so annoying! If he can’t even be nice about it no more coffee making from you! I also wouldn’t call him now lol  ( can’t fucking wait!- seriously??) He was probably having a bad morning ( which doesnt make it right but its not the end of the world) Just take some space! Dont call or anything, have him come to you and maybe in a few hours he will realize what a dipshit he was and he will apologize

 

Post # 23
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Helper bee

Is he always rude? Because while concussions are healing it is common for people to exhibit anger or a temporary change in personality. My Future Brother-In-Law had it happen while his concussion was healing but it passed once he was fully recovered. 

Post # 25
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Helper bee

I hope it was just morning grumpiness and that he snaps out of it and is sweet to you! 

Post # 26
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7775 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

You have nothing to apologize for. Tomorrow I would only make enough coffe for myself. And every morning thereafter until he can be nice.

Post # 28
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base

There is this joke about a couple fighting.  The man has to make all the decisions, you know, he wears the pants in the family.  He proceeds to take his pants off and tells her to see if he can wear them.  Instead she takes her panties off and gives them to him and asks if he can get into them.  He answers “no.”  Her response is “that’s right,  and you won’t be getting into them either.”

I’m sorry today isn’t as good as others for you.  ๐Ÿ™

ETA: Hope you got a smile out of the joke.  

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 10 months ago by  PinkQueen.
Post # 30
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Blushing bee

Amerie27:  Rude.  I would just tell him “I know you’re particular about your coffee, thats fine, but don’t be rude to me when I try to kiss you goodbye – what is the point in holding a grudge?”  Seriously… don’t cry over spilt milk… ya know.

My ex used to get mad so easily and he would stay mad for the entire day – or longer.  I can’t deal with that shit, it makes you miserable and for no good reason, what is the point?

Have a good day girl.

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