(Closed) Grumpy Bridesmaid

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Would it be possible to meet up with her, go for drinks and have a frank conversation with her about what’s going on?  Sometimes direct is best. 

If she refuses to meet up with you, I’d give her a deadline, say one month before the wedding.  Let her know you’d really like her to be there, but you’re confused about her behaviour and feel that it seems she no longer wants to participate in your wedding.  Based on what’s been going on, you need confirmation from her by x date that she’d like to be in the wedding party, and if you don’t receive confirmation, you’ll assume that she has decided not to come.  Rather than kicking her out, you’re giving her the option of participating or not.

I have a feeling that no matter which way this goes, you’ve lost a friend.  Very sorry that you’re dealing with this.  It’s unfortunate, but it happens. 

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