(Closed) Guest behaved so badly I'm unsure what to do.

posted 5 years ago in Reception
Post # 31
2487 posts
Buzzing bee

First- It’s absolutely SHAMEFUL to attempt to excuse deplorable behavior because of Asperger’s.

Second- NO PHOTOS from your Darling Husband until she sets all “indiscretions” totally right.

Third- Absolutely ask the best man’s wife about her behavior, but I’d start with a neutral “Did you happen to notice Sally during my wedding?….”


Post # 32
595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I’d really like an update on this. I’m having a very lazy Sunday, just cruisin’ the bee…

Post # 34
264 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Pele:  No doubt she’s a horrible person but take comfort in the fact that you know this now not when shes been intimately involved with you and your kids for years. 

Personally I think your best course of action is to finish your business with her to the best of your ability and change your number.

I know it’s hard at times to believe KARMA will take care of everything but sometimes you just have to believe. Just do your best and rise above her foolishness you will be rewarded for it. 

Renegiotiating the price or not doing what was implied or agreed upon may disrupt your husbands reputation as a photographer. Lesson learned Business is business, pleasure is pleasure,  not everyone is suitable to traverse the business and pleasure spheres, and everything in writing so there’s no miscommunications.  

Best of luck. 

Post # 35
595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Thank you for updating. She sounds horrible and the sooner you can wash your hands of her, the better off you’ll be.

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