Post # 1
I gradutated college a in Dec of ’09 and moved about 6 hrs away from everyone. I stayed close with a few people and there are a few that I am starting to naturally fade away from. If my wedding was tomorrow there would be no doubt I would want them there but by the time my wedding comes in July 2011 I really dont know where our relationships will stand. I am about to send out STD’s and idk if I should send them one. Do you send STD’s to people on your B list? Has anyone else sent some a STD but not a wedding invite or vise versa?
Post # 3
I wouldn’t send an STD to anyone that you are not 100% sure that you will invite to the wedding.
Post # 4
There were people I sent an invite to but not an STD. An STD= invite. If you are leary, I would say hold off on sending them the STD.
Post # 5
If you send them a STD you MUST send them an invite!
So if you aren’t sure about some people do not send them Save-The-Date Cards. Just make sure that these guests are not friends with the people who will be getting Save-The-Date Cards. You don’t want them to know they are B list!