(Closed) Guest-Created Wedding Drama

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Honey bee

What she did is not proper Catholic behavior. All people are welcome at church. But I would let the anger and insult go. They are obviously miserable people with no manners. They aren’t worth your angst.

That being said, let their or your mother’s write the letter and you can sign it. Why should you pay for your attorney to do so?

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper

All I have is Wow… Just wow. Some people

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

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forgotusername:  OMG they were so rude! We’re having a Catholic wedding (FI is Catholic and I’m not) and everyone is welcome in the church. If non-Catholics couldn’t attend Catholic weddings poor Fiance would be marrying an empty space next to him!

I’m glad you’re standing your ground and refusing to invite them – the cheek of some people is absolutely astounding.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Everyone is welcomed in the church! 2 of my bridesmaids are jewish ahaha

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Incredibly rude of her/them to kick you out, and then to expect you to do them a favor now?! Tell your mother no, and stand firm. 

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2016 - Sept 2016 Venice, Italy

Hell no!!! The nerve of your relatives. Stand your ground.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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forgotusername:   Glad you are saying no – I’d be fuming too.   Stand your ground!!  

Post # 11
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Helper bee

Are you a Filipina as well? I found that traditional Filipino families are so much more overbearing than non-traditional families because of old-fashioned values like filial piety (similar to traditional Chinese and Spanish).

My immediate family is easier (with the exception of my dad) to talk to but extended family who I never even talk to feels entitled to a free meal/vacation during any special occasion.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

The Justice brat in me is so happy you are saying NO to them riding your wedding invitation.  Some people have no shame, and the amount of entitlement is nuts!  Stay strong bee! Keep up the good work!

Post # 13
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Honey bee

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forgotusername:  Oh, my bad, I thought you were inviting them as a favor to your mother. I completely agree about not lying.

Post # 14
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Helper bee

I’m guessing it isn’t because you’re not Catholic… If I had to make a guess it’s because they didn’t like how you looked (clothing, too much makeup,etc) and started making assumptions about you. I mean it wouldnt make sense for them even to invite you if that was their reasoning. 

Either way it’s low class of them to ask you to leave their wedding, exp after all the last minute trouble you went though. Why even invite them? Beyond this instance it also doesn’t seem like you were even close at all before that. I also don’t think you need to get getting visas for people your mom wants to invite either, that should be on her to do.

Post # 15
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Helper bee

Oh, hell no. Let them find their own way to a visa. Lesson learned for them!

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