(Closed) Guest List

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

We gave +1s to anyone in a relationship (no matter how serious, because it’s not my job to judge their relationship!) we also gave +1s to our truly single friends who either have to travel to be at our wedding, or who won’t know anyone else at our wedding. 

Post # 4
174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You should give single guests a +1 (especially if they don’t know anyone) and also your wedding is more than a year away that your single friends may end up getting in a relationship by the time your wedding comes around.

Anyone who is in a serious relationship, living together or married automatically has their significant other/spouse invited as well

Post # 5
591 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

We gave our friends +1s regardless of relationship status.

However, for our cousins, we only gave +1s for those in a relationship.  We figure they will know plenty of people there and we have A LOT of cousins, so this cut the guest list by about 12.  

Post # 6
478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

We gave +1 to certain people.  We wanted to keep it as small as possible so I asked my close single friends if they would mind sacrificing a guest as they already know most of the people there.  The people who are single and really dont know anyone I definitely gave a +1 to.  other than that everyone in relationships got a +1. 

Post # 7
478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

PS.  My close single friends were VERY coopertive and all said they didnt mind as they know quite a few people. 

As for family, cousins who were not married do not get guests as they are going with their parents. 

Post # 8
2965 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

We did not do a +1 for single guests. I’m trying to keep my wedding as small and intimate as possible (max 75 including kids). Guests who are in relationships of course can bring their SOS.

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