(Closed) Guest List Changes… Day of Mailout?!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
299 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I get your frustration. Every time I talk to one of mine or Fiance parents people get added. It’s always the same too “they probably won’t go but they should be sent an invitation.” Really? Are you going to put the invitation together? Are you paying to send it to them and then paying to have them send the “no” response back? 92 cents isn’t alot of money but when you have to send out over 120 invitations (and RSVPs) it adds up! My mom was fussing because some cousins kid wasn’t being invited. I had to draw a line and say this is the cut off. If you think someone will be offended because their kid isn’t invited, call them and tell the situation. I think FI’s mom told every person she ever came into contact with to expect an invitation. There are cousins on there Fiance has never met but they babysat him when he was 1 so they have to get an invitation. This guest list is the most stressful part of the whole planning process! Sorry for my mini rant. The point is, I get it 🙂

Post # 4
1844 posts
Buzzing bee

Tell them all you have made all the invitations you are going to make.  If they want more made they can figure out how to make that happen.  So frustrating!

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