(Closed) Guest List Conflicts? Help!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Invite both, and see what happens. Seeing Ex’s sucks, expecially if they are married. But to be honest, your friend needs to make the decision to suck it up for a night, look great and have fun, or hide because an ex will be there. Who knows, maybe the cousin wont come.

Is your wedding still a ways away? Things/her feelings could change between then and now.

Post # 4
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7904 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Invite them both. Maybe she’ll be in a more stable place about that relationship by the time of the wedding, or maybe he’ll RSVP regrets and she can come with no worries.

Post # 5
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2254 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

The best you can do is invite both and let them decide ultimately if they would want to attend the wedding. Fi’s cousin will always be his cousin. If you opt not to invite him, it might make things awkward in the long run. Hopefully come time for your wedding, your friend will be able to handle it. 

Post # 6
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4194 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

By the time of your wedding, it will be a year and a half. Hopefully she can handle it by then. You invite both. My parents separated a year before my brother’s first wedding, and if they could handle it (wasn’t the best situation, but…) your friend can.

Who knows- maybe she’ll be head over heels with someone else by then.  🙂

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

Invite both, let her decide whether to come or not.

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