(Closed) Guest List Issues…

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3770 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I would sit down with your Fiance and come up with the list together. Technically only the two of you are responsible for the weding. It will also make things easier down the road since she didn’t want to give you a list, it shouldn’t be an issue about going over on numbers.

Post # 4
4822 posts
Honey bee

You have her son tell her 

“mom, if you dont ge us your lis by date then we are going to have to make the list for you”

Then you make the list and call who you have to call to get addresses and mail out the STDs.

Post # 4
887 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Can’t your Fiance at least make a basic guest list for you? He knows his side of the family (relatives and such), so he should be able to go online to Dexknows.com or whatever andlook up their addresses.

Post # 5
14490 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

It is time for you FH to handle his mother and tell her if she doesn’t get you all the list, then they don’t get any invites besides the ones you already know.  Have him set a firm date with her and stick to it.  He really needs to handle this himself as this is his mother, the more you push, the more she will push back.  If he takes a stand on this little thing, it will mean a world of difference down the road.  Sorry you are going through this.


Welcome to the Hive and Thank you and your FH for your service!

Post # 6
1368 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Have your Fiance talk to his mom, otherwise let her know you need them by X date otherwise you’re just going to send your side’s STDs.

I think that will light a fire under her and then you can send out his side’s STDs whenever you get the list from her. Hopefully she cooperates and sends the list to you soon!

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