(Closed) Guest list problems…

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 23
3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We are going with the ‘living together, engaged, or been together over 1 year and have met the family’ rule. We ran into similar problems and I hate everything guest list right now.

Post # 24
16 posts
  • Wedding: July 2012

@galloway111-yes, i’m inviting some siblings and not others. For example, my great aunts i’m close to and have met and seen them periodically. They all live in the same area as my grandma so it was easy to keep in touch. However, my great aunts kids are a different case. For one of my great aunts, i’m inviting her daughter and her family, but not either of her sons. I’m not sure if I’ve met her sons and if I have, it was so long ago I don’t remember. Her daughter on the other hand, my moms cousin, my mom is close to and she’s made an effort to attend graduation parties, etc. So I sent a save the date to my great aunts daughter, but not her sons. 


What my fiance and I decided is that after we send out our invitations and start to hear back from people, we’ll count all the “no” responses and send out that many more invitations. I may invite her sons after I know how many people rsvp no, but we have a set limit so until I know a for sure count for people not attending, I can’t invite more than the venue can seat. 

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