(Closed) Guest List Situations… What would you do?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: What would you do in this situation?
    Ignore him. : (4 votes)
    10 %
    Get on that, quickly. : (34 votes)
    81 %
    Elope. : (4 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    899 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Be proactive. I would have your mother message your great uncle and say, “I’m sorry, but the guest list is limited, etc. etc. Nip this in the bud now!

    Post # 4
    515 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I went through the SAME thing but it was my mom adding the people. Finally I said LOOK I already sent out the invites to the people I wanted to send them to and it’s done. I don’t have room or money for the extra people.

    Post # 5
    5271 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    Yes, you need to smash that idea ASAP. If not, they will be very likely to just show up.

    Post # 6
    2580 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I think in this situation you need to be proactive–ignoring this issue will only make it worse when Save-The-Date Cards or invitations go out. If I were your mom, I would probably delete the post and send the uncle a private message/email/phone call explaining the situation. Your explanation sounds very reasonable, you could also probably include something about the budget; that’s usually a very justifiable argument for cutting the guest list.

    Post # 7
    4887 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I’d post on the FB page (just in case others can see) that you wish you could invite everyone but are keeping this a very small event – but that you cant wait to see everyone at the next (enter family activity here)!!!!


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