- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
ok…so it not a problem with my whole guest list, but I do have a problem with one single person. My fiances mom has a new love interest, and I cannot stand him. The first time he met me he said something about my parents not raising me with good spiritual values, and then my fiance and I were running errands for his mom and couldnt find some wine the new love interest told her to et (i think he should have gotten it himself if he wanted her to try it). When i was telling her this over the phone, he grabbed the phone and said “If you would have gone to discount liquor and talked to the manager like I told you…” I intereupted him to say that we had gone to 2 liquor stores, and couldnt find it, and we had other things to do so we would have to look some other time, and he proceeded to say “I gave you one task and you failed it” Who the hell is he to talk to me like that? I was so upset that I was crying. I was obviously upset by this, but nobody seemd to care, and my fiances mom keeps saying he didnt mean it, he was joking. I don’t appreciate being talked to like that from somebody that I dont know, and that somebody who doesnt even know me or my family. then last night when I said I am not going to think that he was joking and kidding around if I didnt hear him say to me that he was sorry, and that he was just joking around. My fiances mom, who I get along with, said that he doesnt feel like he needs to apologize because he doesnt think he did anyhting wrong. No I must say that peole think I am being immature in this situation, but isnt that immature as well? Regardless of whether or not he believes he did anything wrong, the fact is that my feeling were hurt, and he should aknowledge that. So down to the point… I dont want him at my wedding, if he is even around that long. I have to send out my invitations in 2 months, and I dont want to make my fiances mom mad or sad, but also don’t want to feel uncomfortable and unhappy at my wedding because he is there. I know everybody is already uncomfortable with this whole situation, and it sucks, so what would you do?