- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Okay, maybe it’s the wedding planning stress talking, but I’m really getting ticked at my Fiance. We had 120 people on the list (the max that our venue can handle). Now, he’s freaking out thinking that nobody on his side (MORE than half the list) is going to show up, so he keeps telling MORE people that he’s going to invite them if we have space.
Here’s the thing: I wanted a small wedding. Small here meaning like 40 people, max. He’s completely disregarded that fact, and I was going to deal with it, but it’s getting frustrating. Also, I am paying for most of the wedding. He’s paid about $400 on our $7000 or so (so far) wedding. Either I or my parents have paid the rest. So when I tell him to chill with the additions to the guest list (since I can barely afford the 90 people we’ve got billed with the venue to begin with), he FREAKS OUT.
Maybe if he were doing more, I would be more willing to accomodate, but he isn’t helping me!! I am planning it. I am paying for it. He could barely even be bothered to sit with me while I printed out the first round of invitations, and he griped the whole time. He doesn’t want to do ANYTHING, but he wants everybody he knows or has EVER known there. Honestly, I would much rather have eloped. He told me I deserved a wedding. My question is, what the HECK did I do to him?!
UUUUUGH. Okay, seriously, rant over. Sorry, just had to get it off my chest.