(Closed) Guest needs advice…

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would just ask her, it doesn’t seem like it should be a big deal.  

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Considering the circumstances, I don’t think it’s rude to ask to bring him. The event’s casual, and he’s traveled to meet your family. You could always ask her in advance- “Will the invitation include BF?” 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@123chicago:  if she is that good of a friend i dont see why you would not call her and just ask.

i would. and if she says no he cant then i would not go only caz he is traveling with you to meet your family and it would be rude to leave him alone besides if i were your friend id definitely want to meet the man that’s making my bff happy ; )

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

I would ask your friend if she’s ok with it– just like you explained here– it’s a long trip for you, and it would be a bummer to have to leave him behind.  Especially since it’s a casual affair, I don’t think it would be much issue for her. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I say ask. Try to be understanding if she says no, but I can’t imagine she would, given the circumstance. I would also hesitate, but it really is what I’m going to call “extrordinary circumstances” so I say ask and explain that he coming all that way and you’d love for him to be able to meet them!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@123chicago:  I agree that you should just ask, and you can even say something like, “I feel bad asking and I don’t mean to put you on the spot, but I just wanted to check with you to see if it would be okay for Boyfriend or Best Friend to come.  I’d love to introduce him to you!”  You can also add something about you hardly ever being able to come home, and he’ll be joining you for the trip to meet your family.  If you were my friend, I would definitely want you to bring your boyfriend!

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