(Closed) guest problem

posted 8 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
858 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Well, look at it this way. It will be men who are falling over her. The women will most likely think, “Yuck, a skinny beautiful girl wearing practically nothing,” because that is what we do :). But basically, I think it will be ok because your guests are your friends and family and they will care more about you and your husband than her. She may be gorgeous, but the only people who will give her a second thought are the people who are interested in dating her. It will be ok. Good luck!

Post # 4
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I think the only thing you can do is try your best to not let it get to you.  Sounds like she’s touched by the invite and will probably be looking good at your wedding.  But, guess what – no one is there to see her.  They are all there to see you.  I had a girl show up in a crazy LOUD outfit.  When I saw her, I thought – seriously?!  Are you trying to get all the attention with your loud outfit and crazy hat?  It bothered me, but it also made me laugh, because that is so ‘like’ her.  I didn’t let it annoy me to the point that it took away from the wedding day or why everyone was there.  Do your best to remind yourself that the day is about you and your love for your husband… everything else is secondary.


Post # 5
2052 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Pray she declines the invitation? Stick her at a table in the back at the reception? LOL 😉 Kidding, kidding. Look. This is someone who was a friend to you at a point in your life, regardless of how she looks, and regardless of how she is treating you now. You were kind to reach out and invite her. If she comes, people may ooh and ahh about her at first glance, but ultimately this is your special day with your darling, above and beyond anyone else. You will look glamorously divine. Your love will to be celebrated. Trust the goddess in you to shine that day, because it will.

As for your friend, I do hope she’ll give you a Yes or No regarding her invitation. April 30th is around the corner and you do need to plan. You might call her to ask f she is coming (do not rely on email or texting) and if she says yes, share that you are making sure all your guests know it is a classy, formal affair (if it is) and therefore classy formal attire is requested. Hopefully she’ll get the hint and dress accordingly.

Good luck!

Post # 6
546 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Are you close to your reply deadline?  April 30 is getting pretty close and i’m assuming (hoping for you) that she would have told you she was coming by now.  I would say there is a good chance she won’t be coming anyways.  It is pretty far to travel for someone you aren’t too close to.

Post # 7
1645 posts
Bumble bee

If you didn’t have other posts I would seriously think this was a troll. Is this problem for real??

Post # 9
321 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

LOL @MissHoneyBun  took the words right out of my mouth.

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