(Closed) guestlist

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You should talk to his mother about it.  Either give her a set number of guests to invite, or tell her you want a “wish list” of everyone who should be invited to the wedding.  Have your mother do the same.  The two of you then write one for your friends you’d like to invite, and voila, there is your beginning guest list.  You can then tweak from there, if need be.

Post # 4
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199 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

If he doesn’t want to make a list then put together all his friends that you know he would want to invite and then let him see if anyone is missing. As far as family, my Mother-In-Law gave me a list of 30 or so people, mostly all distant relatives so we made it clear they all couldn’t be invited and not to invite anyone herself until the guest list was final. It all depends on your relationship with Future Mother-In-Law though, it can be tricky!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

get ur friends on a list. tell ur parents to write down their list. then depending on how many guests ur parents invite. try to give ur future inlaw the same respect by allowing close to the same number of spots and then tell ur fiance if he wants people there he better start working. lol 😉 sarcasm.. make sure all ur fiances important friends take priority then mil list though..

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