(Closed) Guestlist Dilemma

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3696 posts
Sugar bee

If you single her out and she is the only first cousin who doesn’t get invited – then, yes, sorry to tell you but it actually would be pretty bad, and it would make you and your Fiance look petty and vengeful. If you’re going to go for a significantly smaller wedding you could opt not to invite first cousins, etc. – but I know, coming from a large family myself, that that doesn’t generally go over well at ALL.

This is probably a case of “you need to be the bigger person.”

Post # 4
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@KCKnd2:  Agreed – I know that it’ll feel good right now to exclude her, but I imagine it’ll cause you a bigger headache than it’s worth.

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