(Closed) Guestlist Invite HELP!

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
161 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think you’re in the right. I’m not inviting the kids of many of my FI’s extended fam for the same reason!

Post # 4
2347 posts
Buzzing bee

Future Mother-In-Law is struggling to please everyone – most guest list issues stem from fear of offending, and she doesn’t want to offend them. I doubt they’ll care either way, but who knows? 

Stick to your guns and say no. Don’t get upset. Just smile, and say you understand her position but your answer is no. If you want to, give your reasons, but only do it once, and then just keep repeating no, as calmly as you can. Eventually this one will pass (and another issue will arise).

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