- 11 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
Hi ladies. Today has not been a very good day for me for the wedding. My RSVP’s were due on the 13th and i have to have my final headcount in. I had one of my family members reply yesterday and put down that 4 people were coming and i only invited 2. To make a long story short on that they arent coming to the wedding now. 2 members of my family replyed yes and then now they are telling a member of my family that they arent coming but his wife says they are. I had my wedding planner call them, she called about 4 times and no one will call her back or pick up the phone.
I really dont know what to do. My final headcount is due and the way i am doing the wedding is if the person on the list they can get in if they arent they can not attend it. The reason being i do not want my dad to show up (i am not on good terms with him) Im worried if i put them down they are coming they wont show up and then if i dont put them down they will come.
My soon to be mother in law told me today that there are probably going to be people that show up that arent invited or someone that brings someone that arent invited. She asked me what i am going to do about it. Honestly, i can not afford to have any more people at this wedding. I am paying for alot of it and my grandma is helping out. I dont have a mom or dad to go to and say hey umm more people showed up here is the bill. I dont know want to piss people off but that is really rude to do that. I dont know what to do. Risk pissing people off or paying for more people with the money i dont have.
I asked my fiancee when we started writing the guest list out if he wants to invite anybody from his work and he told me no, now he told someone at his work about it and they think they are invited and planning on showing up. I dont want to be mean 2 anybody but i dont have the money for any extra people. I know my other half will not come up with the money if this person shows up.
I just dont know what to do!