(Closed) Guests causing stress / was this email a bit off?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Ehh, I wouldn’t worry about it.  You’ve got bigger things to deal with right now.  Feel better!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

honestly, the way their email is worded, it sounds like they are just trying to overly justify why they are so late.  i wouldn’t worry about it

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I think their email is quite polite – kind of with a tone of “we’re worried we’ve upset you”. I wouldn’t worry about it πŸ™‚

Also re: timing of the mail – you really never know with things unless you’ve sent it to be delivered within 1/2/whatever days. Sometimes things I’ve posted to my mum (one province over) take more time than things posted to my friend in Europe or my SO in the US. I wouldn’t worry about sounding like you’re defending your mailing and RSVP dates… and anyhow, “mid-July” may mean anything past the 10th for some people :p

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with others. They were worried about upsetting you since they didn’t RSVP in time. I’ve gotten a few of those myself πŸ™‚

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think the tone of their email is fine.

 

πŸ™‚

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think the tone of their email is fine.

 

πŸ™‚

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

@li612:  

@kittyface:  

+1

They sound like a really nice couple that didn’t want to be late or assume that they were invited to more of the wedding than they actualy were! 

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I think both emails sound fine. Don’t worry! 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I think they were just honestly just trying to clarify things.  You can never tell with the mail.  Both my cousins live in the same state.  One received her invitation and the other didn’t.  I just assumed both got theirs when the one told me she did.  It’s going to be okayLaughing

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