(Closed) Guests changing RSVP

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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569 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Wow, I’m sorry these people made you feel unimportant. That was extremely rude of them. Have you mentioned it to your parents or other family members to see how they feel? Obviously you can’t uninvite them, so I guess just try to take comfort in the fact that there are lots of other people who do think you’re important and are very excited to attend your wedding. Or if you’re feeling spiteful, you might mention to an older relative (preferably a gossipy one) what happened and see how long it takes for this story to circulate. 😉

Post # 4
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65 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

So rude!  It’s your wedding not a family reunion.  I think you did the right thing by letting them change their RSVP. 

Post # 5
Member
90 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s so mature of you to let them change the RSVP even though they are being rude. Family gets so silly and has so many little dramas when a wedding is involved, don’t they?

@McVerde: Ha, that is an interesting way to release some spite. Tongue out

Post # 6
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1145 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@Pupperoni: Maybe they knew they couldnt afford to attend the wedding and felt bad about the possibility of not having money for a gift. (it does happen)They probably have not seen that person nor will in the near to far future. Whatever the reason I wouldnt feel bad about it, you did the right thing.

Post # 7
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3255 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It’s rude for sure, but I think you did the right thing and handled it in a mature fashion.

Everyone has those weirdo family members who seem to have no common sense or tact. It wasn’t worth arguing about it with them, so just move on and focus on the important things. 🙂 

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