(Closed) Guests Inviting More Than Their Plus One

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Wow, you seem very calm, this would annoy the hell out of me! I’m all for inviting partners, but if someone wants a big knees up with all of their family and friends, they get to host it, not turn your wedding into it! 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Well, at least in the case of your friend, she’s asking?

I would just explain to her, as kindly as possible, that you can only invite a certain number of people to the wedding due to size constraints, and you’ve already hit your max. Since she is a long-time friend, she should hopefully understand.

I had a friend who wrote in her sister to her RSVP without even asking, even though she was clearly not given a +1 of any kind. I had another friend who wrote in her boyfriend’s kid even though our wedding was child-free. :/

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