(Closed) Guests who RSVP Yes and decide they aren’t coming!!

posted 7 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
14497 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Hey, I wouldnt mention that info on my own, but if they actually came out and asked, i’d have no problem telling them yes.  What do they expect me to do??  Lie and say no?? 

Post # 4
5296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

It’s so annoying. We had probably 10-12 people say yes and were then no-shows at the wedding (not even a week or day ahead notice) and had another 4-5 not rsvp or rsvp no and showed up. I’m glad I didn’t bother with place cards – it would have just been a huge mess anyway.

Post # 5
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Yeah, we had at least 10 guests RSVP “yes” and then not show up. Hundreds of dollars wasted. It’s upsetting, but unavoidable from what I can tell.

Post # 6
5498 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

We had several people RSVP yes, tell us they wouldn’t miss it for the world…and then they didn’t even show up. No call or anything. So annoying!

Post # 7
2742 posts
Sugar bee

I did my place cards the day before the wedding. I had about 15 ppl not show. But then I had about 10ppl show up uninvited so I guess it balanced out 🙂 I’m still wondering how to word a Thank You note to a few people whose wives showed up but they didn’t.

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