(Closed) Guidance on city for wedding?

posted 10 years ago in Venue
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2007

I guess there’s quite a few things that would play into my decisions.

1. Ease of planning – obviously where you live now would prob win in this category.  Planning a wedding from a distance can add to your headache.

2. Cost – Where can you have the most cost efficient wedding?  Venue, Catering, Cake, Flowers etc.  DC is known to be pricey.  Maybe you could save money having the wedding at one of your other two options.

3. Guest Travel – Make a list for each location of how many guests would have to travel.  Flights/Hotels/Rental Cars.  This could add up for guests.  You may choose a location where the least have to travel – or where the cost of traveling (hotels) is least expensive.

4. Heart – Which place means the most to you guys?  Which place warms your heart and sets your mind dreaming?

5. Weather – If you’re dreaming of a winter wedding – you may not want to risk a blizzard in New Husband.  Also if you’re dreaming of a June wedding the DC/NOVA hummidity might do you in (even if it’s indoor).  Maybe that’ll help in your decision.

6. If you are still really struggling with narrowing down your options then do a venue search in each of the three areas.  See what’s even available.  Maybe one will catch your eye as prefect and make your decision for you 🙂

Best of luck.  This is the fun part!!!

Post # 4
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72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: Small church ceremony, museum reception

hi Kara- I just posted about why we chose New Orleans as our wedding location! Good luck 🙂

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

We had some (very minor) turf battles. Here’s where we were considering and what we thought about it:

Southern Maryland — Where my immediate family lives. Gorgeous. Perfect for a beautiful outdoor wedding. Only 1-2 hours from DC or Baltimore, so not horrendously hard for people to get to. Most guests would be coming from the northeast part of the country, and flying or driving would be OK. He wasn’t as into it. Negative: not as many hotels down where we live, but I’m sure we would have figured something out.

Philly suburbs — Where my fiance’s family is from, and where a lot of his extended family lives as well. His sister got married in the area a couple years ago, and while it was a gorgeous wedding, I felt it would (kind of sort of) copying, and I wanted our wedding to be definitely unique.

Philadelphia — I loved the idea of a city wedding, but immediately we figured it would be too expensive for us.

NJ — I’m from Princeton originally, which is gorgeous but also has the potential to be expensive. He has ties to the Jersey shore, which would be nice, but neither of us wanted a beach wedding, and again, I had a sense of it being "his" turf more than mine.

Louisville, KY — Where we’re living now. None of our family is anywhere nearby, but we love the city. It’s a little less expensive than planning on the east coast, and we are forcing everyone to come visit us and explore a city that they probably would not otherwise ever visit. Plus, I’m a medical student, so I don’t have a lot of free time, and it’s easier to plan the wedding from where I am living, rather than planning long-distance, although long-distance planning is definitely not impossible. We’re inconveniencing both of our families equally in terms of travel, so it’s fair 🙂

I know that’s really specific to us, but maybe hearing someone else’s story will help. Jilian’s breakdown is pretty much all-encompassing!

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