(Closed) Gust List Drama …

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
98 posts
Worker bee

Who texts like that!?!?

I also don’t really get her question. Sort of seems like she’s backing out though. 

Post # 5
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581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Sounds like she is backing out.  And I agree her questions are tacky (some she should already know from the invitation; some are just rude).

Just curious. How old is she? She texts like she’s 14!!

Post # 7
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581 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@WineAndCupcakes:  Since she clearly can’t read (maybe she doesn’t know how judging by the typing) the invite, you should’ve told her the wedding was on a different day! Tongue Out

and I know what you mean about your Fiance.  Love mine with all my heart but he is clueless sometimes!

 

Post # 9
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2335 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

To be honest, her texting irritates me so much I would probably just stop responding. >.<

But patience has never been a virtue of mine. Maybe this is why your Fiance didn’t put her on the guest list! Haha.

Tell Fiance that he needs to deal with these questions with his cousin. Then the cousin’s girlfriend doesn’t need to be involved at all.

Post # 11
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2335 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

@WineAndCupcakes:  LOL I would never post my WORK schedule, wow.

First of all, nobody would care, except for creepy internet stalkers. In which case you’ve just informed all the creepers out there EXACTLY where you’re gonna be every day next week… not smart.

Post # 12
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812 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

She could be stupid or lazy, but she might actually suffer from Expressive Language Disorder.  It’s a real disorder and it can either happen during childhood development or from an injury later in life.

I have to proof read most of the important emails my Fiance sends out for work before he sends them just so I can go through and add where he left out pronouns. 

And yeah, it’s tough to decipher the text messages sometimes, but I love him and just find it even more endearing.

 

Post # 13
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4193 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

It’s probably worth having Fiance call his cousin, to clear the air- “Hey, we’re not sure from the texts Sue sent Fiance if you two are coming to the wedding or not…”

I’ve also wanted to tell my share of people- “read the invite.” “it’s on the web site.” :)-

Post # 14
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201 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Her last question can also interpreted as fishing for an opportunity to bring the kids. 🙁

Post # 15
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174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

She’s hinting that they don’t have a sitter or can’t get one so that you will give in and say “bring the kids”.

With her, I would let your fiance deal with the cousin and after that just consider the source and move on.

 

Post # 16
Hostess
23602 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

OMG grammar please.

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