Post # 1
OMG. This guy I have liked who has a girlfriend just got ENGAGED! Don’t get me wrong, I’m happy for them but it did not show up on their Facebooks, and how I found out was because a few mutual mutual friends commented congratulations on getting engaged! On one of their new profile pictures. So they must have updated their status and set the privacy to friends only and since I’m on restricted I didn’t see it! But all of his other posts are public so for some reason he made only the engagement post friends only so I wouldn’t see it. But I am still friends with him on FB just on a restricted list meaning I can only see public posts. And they are not the type of people to not announce their engagement on FB. I am hurt that he wouldn’t want me to know he was engaged and what’s more this means I probably won’t be invited to their wedding. I thought I was his friend, he said he was my friend. And Ftr, I liked him before he even started dating this girl. When I asked him out, he had just asked her out but I didnt know this at the time. And his response was I view you as a friend and appreciate your friendship but am not interested in being more than friends. So I believed him. But ever since then he gradually started acting more and more distant around me and acting like he didnt want to talk to me or be around me. It got even worse over the summer, which is when he and his gf put me on restricted after I liked a post made by his gf that was a photo of the two of them travelling. So it seems like he lied to me about wanting to be my friend or something happened to make him not want to be my friend anymore and instead of confronting me about it or trying to work it out he just ghosted and cut me out of his life. Which he said he would never do. 🙁
Post # 2
Ok so you need to unfriend him and let it go. He’s not your friend.
Post # 3
Don’t waste another thought on him. Focus your energy on those who actually want to be friends with you.
Post # 4
you sound like a psycho stalker; please stop.
Post # 5
It sounds like he isn’t comfortable being friends with you after he learned you were romantically interested in him.
The fact that you’re on his restricted FB list should tell you something! He doesn’t WANT you in his life and he lacks the balls to delete you (or he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings).
You aren’t “friends”. You have become awkward acquaintances due to unreciprocated feelings.
If you like him romantically, why do you want to go to his wedding and watch him marry someone else? That sounds like self-torture.
Delete him off social media and move on. I know it hurts that he didn’t choose you, but you will feel better if you cease contact with either of them and move on with your life!
Post # 6
Ok you need to get off this mans fb page and move onnnnn
Post # 7
I think he is just being respectful of his fiance, you dont know what he has told her about you and it may of caused some insecurities in her/their relationship.
He probably didnt want to hurt your feelings and went the round about way of cutting you out of his life slowly unfortunately 🙁 It sucks but sometimes its best to just walk away.
Post # 8
he’s trying to gently push you out of his life without hard feelings.
The more you resist this, or believe you are entitled to anything more from him (a wedding invitation, different privacy settings, the fulfillment of offhand promises he made ages ago) the worse it’ll be for you.
Remember, when someone takes the time to restrict what you can see on FB about them, well, that relationship is about done. It’s kinder than unfriending someone though, especially if you know they’ll immediately know they’ve been unfriended.
Post # 9
I’m sorry but I got some serious “bunny boiler” vibes from this thread. He’s just not into you. I would unfriend him and try to move on from it. If you can’t I would seek the help of a paid professional.
Post # 10
I would restrict you as well, you seem overly involved and emotionally unstable.
Delete him and move on
Post # 11
I would take the hint of I were you, as awful as it is he isn’t interested in being your friend. Move on there’s plenty more fish in the sea
Post # 12
Wow. This makes me not miss high school at all.
Go find a hobby or job or volunteer gig or all three. Move on and let the guy live in peace with his fiancee.
Post # 13
- Wedding: May 2016 - Sussex, UK
I assume you are quite young?
He sounds like a good guy. He let you know exactly how he feels and didn’t give you false hope. Move on.
Post # 14
So when he said he viewed me as a friend, he really meant it? Because he didnt act like it.
Post # 15
- Wedding: May 2016 - Sussex, UK
He may view you as a friend but he knows you have/ had feelings for him so out of respect to his Fiance he shouldn’t be spending time alone with you. Have you been friends for a long time? How much would you miss his friendship?