(Closed) (Guy) Friend problem.. please help me analyze.

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

It is a bit tough to see what is really going on without knowing him. Him disappearing may not have anything really to do with you.

Has anyone heard from him lately? Could he have moved? Do you think maybe now that he has a SO she may not like that you two are friends?

Post # 5
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2538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m confused. He won’t respond after you sent him a picture of you and your FI? Have they met in person before? And what is the “let me know tone?”

Post # 6
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I wouldn’t over analyze it. Guys aren’t like girls and who knows what he’s actually doing. He could just be too busy or whatever. I wouldn’t automatically assume he’s into you.

Post # 7
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542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

How odd….

To be honest, it sounds like he is jealous. I have found it hard to be friends with guys who were just my friend. Many guys in this situation get the wrong idea. I also have one guy friend who simply will not talk to me anymore because I told him a few years ago that I wasn’t interested in him that way. Now he is married and even has a baby, but still won’t talk to me! It’s so weird. I think sometimes guys just get their feelings hurt and now he is too hurt/embarrased to talk to you. That is still lame though. He should at least be honest with you about it.

Post # 8
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5271 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I think you may reading into this too much, but then again I don’t know the whole back story.

Did all this happen yesterday? And you can’t reach him today? If so, then I wouldn’t be worried at all; he is prob just busy or not be in the mood to talk to anyone.

Post # 10
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5271 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Ohhh sorry I missed that, I thought your second paragraph was “after 4 months” this happened.

Well it sounds like he may be depressed if he is shutting everyone out for months. Do you have contact w/ any family or his other friends?

Post # 11
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Cachita: Oh I misunderstood too. I thought you reconnected after 4 months and then this happened.

Post # 13
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7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@Cachita: don’t mess with his work.  

Are you sure he’s ok?  Meaning, not hurt/injured/killed/gone missing?

I’d emailing him, call him, text him, send him a letter (asking him to contact you and expressing that you are hurt by his lack of communication) but I would NOT set up a call to your residence.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

If he’s still with the “witch” then maybe she just doesn’t like y’all being friends and he finds it easier to cut you out than deal with the drama. It sucks that he won’t even tell you the problem though. Or maybe he doesn’t like your FI? Like he doesn’t think he’s the right person for you and just decided it would be easier to not be in your life for a while. There’s all kinds of possible explanations. Hopefully he’ll come around soon, but until then, there’s no telling what the issue is.

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