(Closed) Guy wants to marry me and I'm freaking out! Please, please help!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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4352 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I got six paragraphs in. Why are you still with him?

ETA: Reread what you just wrote. He wants you to be his parents’ servant. He ruins holidays for you. He is disrespectful of your parents. He can’t support himself. I would just keep rereading what you’ve written and thinking about it. I would leave. But it is your relationship. It sounds like he treats you terribly. Do you want to be treated terribly for the rest of your life?

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

You’ve listed 1000 reasons to dump him and not a single one to stay.  Just because someone says they love you, doesn’t mean you should marry him.  You can do better, move on. 

Also – I am pretty sure it’s legally unethical to partner up a law firm with someone who is not a lawyer and he could lose his license over that.  Just sayin..

Post # 5
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206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Yeah, this does not sound like a healthy, happy relationship…I think you’ve answered your own question here.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Well to me this does not sound like marriage material or much more LOVE material. Sorry that you are going through this, but you have options! Take care of yourself! 

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

i couldn’t even read it all. 

seriously, why are you even with him?  do you really need to ask us?

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Just walk away.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Dump him and move on, he sounds awful

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@asscherlover:  Ditto but I only made it four.  With so many red flags you already know what you should do, you just want us to tell you to do it.  DO IT!  DUMP HIS SORRY A$$!!!!!

He may love you and you probably do love him, but he does not respect you or his parents.  He is not a partner, he is a soul-sucker, sucking all of your life and happiness out of you.  Continuing to try to make things work with this guy is wasting precious time you could be using to find a real partner.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@alliefly:  Yes.

Post # 12
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95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Yikes, cut the ties before he spends $ he doesn’t have on a ring. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Easy, don’t marry him. In fact, run as far away from him as you can.

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper

So many of these posts lately–are these all for real??  

Post # 16
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Blushing bee

You can do so much better than that BS. Saying he loves you is not enough, his actions don’t come close to showing it. He doesn’t respect you, or your parents at all. Break up with him, you deserve someone who *actually* loves and cares for you.

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