(Closed) Guys checking you out, when does it get weird?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 2
375 posts
Helper bee

I find it creepy when OLD men check me out. That creeps me out major to the point I’ll say, ” You could be my dad” Lol. Works every time… Hahaha other then that, I really don’t mind. My husband catches guys looking at me before I would even notice lol, one time when we were at a mall and there was a bunch of guys just standing around, I didn’t realize they were all looking at me until my husband told me to walk infront because he didn’t want the guys looking at my ass. LOL. 

Post # 3
84 posts
Worker bee

As long as they don’t stare and are not rude I have no problem, whatever…

Post # 4
2901 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Jennybee224: I don’t notice because I’m usually too busy doing my own thing.

I’m not flattered, since I don’t agree with objectification. 

Post # 5
941 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 1975

Jennybee224:  Sometimes I’ll notice, other times I am oblivious. I get the whole leering/creepy stares that are just uncomfortable. A glance is okay, heck, sometimes I notice myself or FI doing that quickly. But the whole “looking deep into… I’m gonna see into your soul” watch, is too much. 

Post # 6
1145 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I was at the gym using one of the cable pulleys and a man was standing next me, and I could see him in the mirror, gawking at my ass. He was super creepy, had his hair shaved into a circle at the top of his head and it was grown into a long pony tail, the bald parts of his head and his face and neck were tattooed, his belly was hanging out of the bottom of his shirt, looked like he should be the next serial killer in the new True Detective series, or from The Hills Have Eyes. That’s when it gets REAL weird.

Post # 7
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I’m gonna say behind this web on anonymity that it is a direct correlation to how cute I find the guy. Is he gorgeous? Wow I’m super flattered. Is he creepy or old or extremely unattractive? stop looking perv. Haha, I’m only human.

Post # 8
72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - backyard

I dont find it flattering especially when I am with my FI, it gets uncomfortable and weird. And besides I know he is on the jealous side.

Post # 9
3303 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010


My husband is jealous too. He doesn’t like it when men look at me while he is around.

I don’t like stares at all. Glances and smiles are okay. 

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