Post # 1
I get checked out by men a lot ( I wish there was a more modest way to put it lol ) and i have noticed that there are times i don’t mind it and times that i find it uncomfortable. I guess it has to do with the way a guy looks at me. Glances, I am ok with. Especially when i wear something i know is sexy , i can feel flattered. I am not so oversensitive to expect that when i wear a mini skirt and cross my legs , a guy wouldn’t look. But when it gets creepy and leering I find it really annoying. Same goes for context. Am I in a bar with friends and wear something that shows cleavage? Fine, take a quick look. But if I am somewhere with my FI and you keep staring that’s just rude. I have also had a job interview once and the guy who asked me the questions kept staring at my boobs. In what universe would I ever be comfortable working for him?
How about you? How often do you notice guys checking you out and how does it make you feel?
Post # 2
I find it creepy when OLD men check me out. That creeps me out major to the point I’ll say, ” You could be my dad” Lol. Works every time… Hahaha other then that, I really don’t mind. My husband catches guys looking at me before I would even notice lol, one time when we were at a mall and there was a bunch of guys just standing around, I didn’t realize they were all looking at me until my husband told me to walk infront because he didn’t want the guys looking at my ass. LOL.
Post # 3
As long as they don’t stare and are not rude I have no problem, whatever…
Post # 4
Jennybee224: I don’t notice because I’m usually too busy doing my own thing.
I’m not flattered, since I don’t agree with objectification.
Post # 5
Jennybee224: Sometimes I’ll notice, other times I am oblivious. I get the whole leering/creepy stares that are just uncomfortable. A glance is okay, heck, sometimes I notice myself or FI doing that quickly. But the whole “looking deep into… I’m gonna see into your soul” watch, is too much.
Post # 6
I was at the gym using one of the cable pulleys and a man was standing next me, and I could see him in the mirror, gawking at my ass. He was super creepy, had his hair shaved into a circle at the top of his head and it was grown into a long pony tail, the bald parts of his head and his face and neck were tattooed, his belly was hanging out of the bottom of his shirt, looked like he should be the next serial killer in the new True Detective series, or from The Hills Have Eyes. That’s when it gets REAL weird.
Post # 7
I’m gonna say behind this web on anonymity that it is a direct correlation to how cute I find the guy. Is he gorgeous? Wow I’m super flattered. Is he creepy or old or extremely unattractive? stop looking perv. Haha, I’m only human.
Post # 8
- Wedding: November 2014 - backyard
I dont find it flattering especially when I am with my FI, it gets uncomfortable and weird. And besides I know he is on the jealous side.
Post # 9
My husband is jealous too. He doesn’t like it when men look at me while he is around.
I don’t like stares at all. Glances and smiles are okay.