Guys don't hint do they??

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

louiseey :  You sound a lot like me in that you don’t take hints easily LOL.  I am sometimes blunt to a fault but I miss hints, if that makes any sense.  Just because you are able to make your wants and needs known easily, doesn’t mean others always feel like they can be that forward.

My Fiance is in general pretty blunt and forward himself.  However, there are times where he can be really afraid of being rejected and is much more passive in expressing his wants.  This exact issue came up when he brought up the subject of us moving in together.  He wanted to do it much sooner than I wanted to; I was leery because I just had 2 pretty intense breakups in my last 2 relationships and wanted to take things more slowly. I finally did get the message one day and asked if he wanted to talk about living arrangements since he had been subtly telling me his lease was going to be up soon.  Once he saw I wasn’t afraid to talk about it, then he was able to open up with me.  I think you need to put everything out there and just discuss it.  I think he will be a lot more relieved when you guys can actually talk about it.

But, your guy may also just be more of a hinter, and there’s nothing wrong with that if you realize that’s what he’s doing.

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