Post # 1

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Ever notice how when a guy comes to ask a question on here, whether it’s about a ring style or a relationship issue, he always gets TONS of responses? Moreso than when a woman asks. Yes, there are some threads that get lengthy, but overall I think Dudes Rule! Lol! I wonder why we are so quick to “help” them? Just an interesting lil’ thing I noticed!
Post # 2

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Helper bee
RedHeadKel: LOL we just want to tell them the things we want to tell our men if they were on here! By responding to them, we help our ladies out!!
Post # 3

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Sugar bee
RedHeadKel: with relationship stuff we want to set them straight 😉 and with rings we know how clueless they probably are 🙂
Post # 4

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Helper bee
Its like a unicorn. Rare. Everyone wants to see.
Post # 5

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Sugar bee
RedHeadKel: plus I think it gets our interest to see inside one of their brains for a little bit…
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becomingsumner: heputaringonit: Haha! VERY good points! Set ’em straight! And frankly, I guess that’s why they are coming here. To get the woman’s perspective. It’s just kind of interesting to me. Have always wondered if there’s a Wedding Dude site we could go to. Bahahaha!
netto614: Like in a zoo! Haha! Yeah, I’m definitely guilty of being curious of the man’s perspective.
Post # 7

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Sugar bee
RedHeadKel: im curious how they find us
Post # 8

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Busy bee
I guess we feel that he’s doing due diligence with research – -so if he’s taking the time to get on these sites – that in my opinion is a good thing and we want to lead him in the right direction. It’s a good thing!
Post # 9

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Honey bee
..You would probably get more responses if you change your SN to “RedHeadTodd” 😛
Post # 10

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heputaringonit: One guy had been googling an intimate problem he was having and happened upon us! Aaaiieee! So maybe they google their issue??
Breauxlin: I agree, it IS a good thing! He can get the female perspective. The last one was a landslide.
saratiara2: Lmao!! And my avitar to a race car or a can of beer?! Hahaha!
Post # 11

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Sugar bee
I agree, I never bother responding to posts made by a dude becuase I know its just gonna get lost amongst the 10,000 other responses he will get lol
Post # 12

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Bumble bee
heputaringonit: I’m not really convinced they are actually men offline. But hey, whatevs.
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Post # 13

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Xu: true, I do wonder if some of them are trolls
Post # 14

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ktsteimel: Yeah, same here. Sometimes I’ll say something, but sometimes not because … 121 responses?!
Xu: heputaringonit: Yup, I’ve definitely wondered this too. Hate wasting my time on trolls. Grrr.
Post # 15

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Xu: Yeah there have been a few I’m pretty sure aren’t real lol
RedHeadKel: I agree that it’s partly the ~unicorn syndrome~ and partly how much we wish men knew “our side of the story” so we’re eager to tell it haha! Though I can attest the one with “intimacy issues” is a very nice and very real man. 😉