(Closed) Habits that YOU have that annoy your DH/FI/SO.

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Post # 2
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

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Olgarie:  My husband is honestly so so sweet and so so in love that I don’t think I could do anything to bug him. But if I chose for myself, I’ll bet he’d appreciate me putting away my clean laundry more quickly. And maybe be more organized over all.

Post # 3
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Busy bee

The number one thing that drives him crazy is that I take forever when we go grocery shopping together, to the point where I’ll just wander the store aimlessly for a good few minutes and then realize all the things I still need to get. But I like taking my time shopping and walking around the store!

He also hates that I always need to know everything right away so I tend to look up spoilers to tv shows/books/movies/etc. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

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Olgarie:  Mine is FOR SURE my OCD… Haha, everything needs to be neat & In its place.. It drives him nuts but he has learned to deal with it very well 🙂 It’s even worse now that I am pregnant and not feeling well so I can’t do all the work I normally do! haha

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

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Olgarie:  I leave all the lights on and all the cabinet doors open. I also leave the recliners up and open and that really annoys him. I also tell him that one day he’s going to come home and all the lights will be on, all the cabinets will be open and all the recliners will be open. Just to annoy him.

I also tend to leave my clothes all over the place and he gets REALLY mad at that.

He’s absolutely OCD and a neat freak. 

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

I tend to reorganize randomly and neglect to tell him where I moved everthing. I also cannot multi task to save my life, so I’m told trying to have a phone conversation with me while I’m in the middle of another thing is akin to talking to a brick wall. 🙂

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception/The Gallery

The biggest one is, hands down, “playing Devil’s advocate” or just bringing up opposing opinions for the sake of debate. I think it’s interesting to look at all sides of things (I really should have been an attorney) but it drives him crazy, this arguing just to do so. Oops.

Also, I never finish my beverages (well, except maybe wine). I leave nearly finished coffee mugs and water glasses all over our loft. To the point where if he brings me coffee in the morning, the mug is usually about a quarter full. Not the point! 

I hit the snooze button like 4 times in the morning. I absolutely hate waking up and have to do so about an hour and a half before him. Admittedly, this is pretty rude of me, though he usually can sleep through it at this point.

Poor guy. Luckily, we both annoy each other but it doesn’t matter, we (usually) can laugh about it. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

I Have tons of clothes so I’d have to say All of my clothes drives him crazy.  I often wash and dry my clothes but dont always put them away as soon as they are clean.  it takes a lot of time to put them away in the right places.  I dont let him do it because he wont put everything in its place and then I cant find it and will tear up the closet and drawers looking for a particular item if im in a rush.  I often leave clean clothes every where.  And he always conplains that I leave clean clothes in the basket on the floor.   But in my defense Dirty clothes are ALWAYS in the hamper.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I snore.  To be fair, it’s not like I’m doing it on purpose and Darling Husband says that whenever he says, “honey, you’re snoring” to me in my sleep, I instinctively turn over to stop.  

Honey2Bee I’m the same way with shopping!  DH gets a little annoyed and then I get annoyed that he’s rushing me.  I let him know in advanceWhen Wegmans opened nearby, I warned him that I would take a while and he said my face looked like I was in Disney World when we got there, so we wandered for 2 hours without him bugging me about it.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I am terrible about making sure perishables get used up. He absolutely can not stand the waste. 

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

my time management – or the lack thereof – drives Fiance batty.

Fiance is very punctual. He tends to be early 90% of the time.

i think it takes me 20 mins to shower and get ready, and in reality it takes more than 60 mins. I think it takes 15 mins to get to yoga studio, but when I actually timed it the trip was closer to 30 mins.

there are so many times when I get yelled at for not being ready to leave the house on time and I just say “GO. WITHOUT. ME. I’ll drive separately”. Drives him absolutely bonkers.

 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I tend to have piles of things. Namely, books. I know what’s in the pile next to my side of the bed or on the coffee table, but she has a hard time understanding my systems. Haha. I set my bag on the floor by the sofa instead of hanging it up. I have too many clothes and shoes! I used to lose my keys constantly, but we put up a hook and that has helped. I also used to be pretty terrible at time management, but that has improved greatly over the half decade we’ve known each other. 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I always forget to lock my car doors and he doesn’t like that I squeeze the toothpaste from the middle and never put the cap back on.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

My Fiance thinks i don’t pay attentionto tv/movies, too, because I often multi-task.  It makes him crazy!

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