(Closed) Had a talk last night….sad

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Hugs*  I can understand being sad. I am praying things ease up financially for you soon.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I’m so sorry!  I see you’re in Massachusetts, would relocating be an option?

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m sorry. I would be sad, too. Perhaps you can start putting a little bit more than usual in savings in hopes that it would help you be able to have a baby sooner? Even $5 more a week can give a little bit of a boost after a while. Hang in there!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

*hugs*

Post # 9
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Honey bee

Loans he makes? What does that mean? Is he helping other people?

I know people feel the need and obligation to help family, but one’s own future must come first. That measn saving enough for retirement first, then kids first. People do not have to own something before having kids, but they do need to be able to afford them.

And congrats on not buying coffee and lunch. I bet that will save you $200 a month! at least. Its amazing how they add up. It always amazed me when people did this. At the cheapest its

$2 coffee +$8 lunch * 5 days a week = $50 a week!!!!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

Hugs

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Awwww well you seem very determined to make it work and thats the spirit!!! Its a good thing that your starting to make your coffees in the morning and lunches, it would save you money and Hey, keep reminding yourself why your doing in the first place, if you ever feel like your losing hope. Babies are wonderful!! but if buying a house is a better option for thhe time being so you both can have a more settled home enviroment for you and the baby, then go for that.

 

 

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