(Closed) Had my first nightmare about losing FI….woke up crying

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2418 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I’ve had one dream like that. I was sleeping alone that night to begin with so waking up from that to being alone terrified me. I didn’t sleep the rest of the night.

Hugs. It happens to the best of us.

Post # 4
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I was having a lot of break up dreams about my SO right before we got engaged… I think dreams like mean that things are changing or something.

Post # 5
643 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013


I’ve had a similar one. Fiance and I were staying in a hotel room in Vancouver and we went to sleep around 1 AM. In my dream, I woke up in our exact same hotel room and looked at the clock and it was 4 AM but Fiance wasn’t beside me. The phone rang and it was the Vancouver police calling, saying that he had died around 3 AM. I was sobbing uncontrollably and wandering around our (again, exactly the same) hotel room for what felt like hours. I have never been so happy as when I woke up and he was in bed next to me. 

It was just so scary because it was so real. I can usually tell when I’m dreaming because things are too weird to be real, but this all matched up. I was in the same room, the timing matched up with when we went to bed. This happened months ago and I still remember every vivid detail. 

Post # 6
5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Oh honey, that’s awful!  I know how real it seemed, but it’s just a dream and nothing bad is going to happen, I promise….I’m a rather lucid dreamer myself and will most likely never hear the end of an intruder in the house nightmare I had last Christmas Eve, where I walked down the kitchen in my sleep, in my dream I was wrestling with an intruder, in reality I was wrestling with Mr. 99 and even managed to give him a respectable shiner in the process!

He was so embarassed to go to my parent’s for dinner the next day, but my family is all too familiar with my nocturnal antics….my father regailed him with a tale of all the Dad’s on the block chasing me down the street one night as I fled some awful dream in my sleep.

You focus on good things, make a pumpkin pie and give him a big hug, it’s ok!

Post # 8
314 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013 - Makena Cove

I dreamt once that SO was killed and I was in his room at his parents house going through his closet and taking things that were significant to me. Normally my dreams take place in a made up surrounding but this time it felt so real. I woke up sobbing and it took SO about 20 minutes to calm me down. 

These dreams are terrifying but hopefully it wont become reoccuring. 


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