Post # 1
I had my first dream of my SO proposing last night. For those that have seen my other posts, my SO is a bit nervous at the idea of re-marrying, so my waiting period is really an undetermined amount of time….we do not have a ring picked out and I’m not sure if he is saving $$ for a ring, but we have discussed marriage and it is on the table. He originally said we would decide to make things permanent or not after dating a year, but haven’t had much discussion about that in a little while (and now we are at about 13 months).
ANYWAY, the dream. I often have a hard time remembering all of my dreams, but I remember everything from the proposal (which was very sweet), all the way down to the ring (which was a very gorgeous 3 stone diamond ring!). The hard part was that it was a very realistic dream – so realistic in fact that I slowly woke up in a state of bliss, actually thinking that the dream was reality. I looked down at my hand, expecting to see the ring, but saw nothing. Then it slowly hit me that it had been a dream… :'( It was a sad and cruel realization!
Anyone else have any waiting dreams recently? Realistic or not?
Post # 3
- Wedding: October 2017 - Baton Rouge, LA
I’ve had 2 proposal dreams…. the first was soon after we went looking at rings (about 8 months ago). And in the dream, he proposed with the most godawful ring ever!! It made me really freak out about what he was planning for me! Then the second dream I had just a few weeks ago, and he proposed with a fabulous gorgeous ring!! So now I’m more excited about what he has in store for me! haha Its crazy how our dreams effect our reality!
Post # 4
I vaguely recall a dream where we were trying to go somewhere for him to pop the question but we never got there hahaha. Silly girl minds!
I’m kinda glad my brain isn’t conjuring up images of the actual proposal though! Helps me keep my sanity!
Post # 5
- Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo
Not exactly lol, I dreamt that he really wanted to show me the ring he got but wasn’t going to propose then (i didn’t like it lol).
I did dream on another occasion that Jeremy Clarkson proposed to me, my response was that I’d have to ask how Boyfriend or Best Friend felt about it XD
Post # 6
LOL No, my SO is dragging his feet in my dreams too
Post # 7
I have had a lot of proposal dreams! The ring has been too big a couple of times in those dreams. Also, a lot of wedding day dreams/nightmares.
Post # 8
No dreams about proposals … for some reason my dreams completely bypass that and just go straight to the wedding ceremony….
Post # 9
I had my first proposal dream last night, which inspired me to stop lurking and create an account!
In my dream, my SO shook me awake (so I didn’t realize that I was dreaming), opened a ring box, and said, “Well?”
I hope that he puts a little more effort into it, but I’d say yes no matter how he proposed.
Post # 10
I keep having nightmares about my SO proposing with HIDEOUS rings. Like, some of them could never actually exist because of what they are made of out, etc. The weird part is we went and picked out 3 rings that I love, and I know he’s getting one of those so I’m not sure why I keep having these nightmares!
Post # 11
@LadyStitcher: Welcome! Understandable that your dream prompted you to create an account! As soon as I had my dream, I thought…man, I need to share this with the other bees! They will totally understand my disappointment!
Now, I feel like the dreams are starting to ramp up a bit. Since my proposal dream a few days ago, I’ve had a couple of dreams where my SO was clearly my husband and the words ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ were used numerous times. Grr!