(Closed) Had our first guest list issues!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013


i guess they assumed that since they stay in contact and try to be closer familiy members (despite which ring they are in) that they would be invited the wedding. Isn’t it nice to see people genuinely excited to see you get married.

Thankfully u know ur budget constraints, otherwise you could be extending invites to everyone who wanted to be there.

I am sure there will be more guest list drama as your date quickly approaches! 🙂




Post # 4
2414 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would say to make a hard and fast line and stick to it!


Post # 6
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i just have to ask- what is snowbirding? lol

Post # 8
899 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Take The Reins:  In regards to the hotel – can you call the hotel and ask that they be taken off the room block group? Explain that they aren’t invited to the wedding and you need all of the rooms in the room block. As long as the hotel has rooms available, they should be able to switch it. 

Post # 9
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Miss Beacon:  Agreed. It’s tough, but when it comes to 30+ additions, you just have to stand firm on the line. Good luck, @Take The Reins:! I agree with @Crabbabs: as well, the hotel may be able to pull them out of the block and just give them other rooms until they decide to cancel them on their own.

@Mrs. Meowerson:  When folks from the Northern/colder climates spend the winters in Southern/warmer climates. Many of them eventually buy a place down in their preferred location, but others just rent each winter or have an RV or something of that nature.

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